你已经20多岁了 真的不要再做这些事情了

点进来的小伙伴估计都是20岁左右吧？你是在读大学呢还是已经毕业了？跟几年前的自己相比，有没有觉得不一样呢？
 
是的，我们还很年轻，我们在慢慢变得成熟，我们也在争取一个更好的生活。
 
可是好的生活需要好的习惯，那么20多岁的你需要做些什么呢？

不要再追求便宜

As a teenager and young adult, it’s fine to buy clothes and only wear them a few times, changing them as fashion dictates. However, now you’re older and probably settling into your first serious job, it’s time to start taking style more seriously. Invest in a few key pieces rather than buying a new wardrobe every few weeks.
如果你还是一个十几岁的孩子或者刚刚成年，当然可以买一些就穿几次的衣服，换不同款式来追求时尚。但是，你越来越成熟了，可能已经找到了自己的第一份正式工作，是时候在穿着上有一点讲究了，你可以少买几件适合自己定位的衣服，而不是一大堆便宜货。

尽快甩开不适合你的那个人

It can be hard to find someone worthy of your time and attention, but by the time you reach your mid-twenties, you should have a better idea about what you need in a partner. Don’t waste your time on experimenting with people who you know, deep down, are not right for you. Strike a balance between being realistic and being too willing to give people a chance.
找到一个适合你的人真的很难，但是现在你已经20多了，应该想想自己到底要找一个什么样的另一半。不要再在那些你明知道根本不适合你的人身上浪费时间。你需要在现实和不愿意给人机会之间寻找一个平衡点。

不要太过在意别人

It’s human nature to worry about what other people think of us, and no-one likes to feel as though they are being judged or criticized. However, being overly concerned with others’ opinions can cause you to lose sleep and even sacrifice your cherished dreams and ambitions in favour of living someone else’s idea of a great life. Trust your own judgement first and foremost.
在意别人怎样看自己其实是人类的天性，没有人喜欢别人在背后议论或指责自己。但是，过于在意别人的看法，活在别人的想法中，有时不仅会失眠，甚至还会让你抛弃自己珍贵的梦想和目标。

不要责怪父母

Sure, no-one’s parents are perfect and yours probably made their fair share of mistakes. However, it’s too easy to fall into the trap of blaming your parents. This isn’t productive, and will sour familial relationships.
毋庸置疑，没有人的父母是完美的，有时你的父母可能真的犯了一点错误。只要稍微不克制，我们就会对父母发火，但是这根本没有用，相反还会恶化家庭关系。

放弃一些实现不了的希望和梦想

Are you guilty of holding onto aspirations that you really would be best off releasing? It may be time to trade in your old goals and ambitions for newer, more realistic aims. This doesn’t mean you have to give up on your vision of an ideal life, just that you need to keep your aspirations realistic.
有些希望其实早该放弃，但你却紧紧抓住，你会感到有罪恶感吗？也许是时候该去追求一些新的、更现实一点的目标了。这不是说让你放弃理想中的生活，而是你需要追求一个更为现实的梦想。

不要再回避财政问题

Those years when you could get away with being oblivious to the intricacies of your financial situation are over. It’s time to get responsible and set up a decent savings account, together with a pension plan if you haven’t got one already.
从不关心自己经济状况的那些年已经结束了，你该负起责任了，建立一个适当的财政储备，如果你还没有养老金计划，也应该一起纳入考虑中。

不要一味做“好人”

Stop people-pleasing. By your age, you should have a good idea of what you are capable of, and where your limits are. Learning how to say ‘no’ is an important step on the road to maturity.
停止取悦他人。这个年龄，你应该对自己的能力和底线有所了解。学会说“不”是走向成熟道路上很重要的一步。

克制上网

This is a tough one. These days, it seems as though everyone is addicted to the internet. We use it to find information, keep in touch with friends…and most of the time just browse social media unconsciously…wasting plenty of time. Learn to set time limits for yourself. You could even try one completely internet-free day per week.
现在来说，这个真的很难做到。如今，每个人都痴迷于上网。我们用它来查知识、联系朋友，其实更多时候，我们也不知道在刷些什么，浪费了大量时间。要学会控制上网，你可以试着一周有一天的时间完全脱离网络。

关心自己的健康状况

Most of us can subject our bodies to late nights, too much alcohol and excessive junk food in college without feeling the after-effects. Unfortunately, as you move into your mid-twenties and then into your thirties, your body isn’t quite up to the task any more. Time to start eating more healthily and limiting those wild late nights!
大多数的我们总是在熬夜，不计后果地喝酒、吃垃圾食品。不幸的是，你已经20多岁了，离30岁也不远了，你的身体早已经不起这样的折磨，从现在开始，学会健康饮食，不要再放纵自己熬夜通宵。

学会收拾

How many hours have you lost looking for your wallet or keys? Make this the year you finally start getting your possessions in order. Nothing makes you feel more mature than knowing exactly where your stuff is.
你花了多少时间寻找你的钱包和钥匙？今年试着将自己的东西按条理摆放。没有什么比知道自己的东西在哪里更让人显得成熟了。

只有20多岁过得足够好，我们才不会恐惧30岁的到来，愿每个小伙伴都能活出自己想要的模样。

（英文材料来自lifehack）

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